A bridal shower has been held to honour the lady for her new recognition, responsibilities, and identity. If you are reading this blog, it must be a task that you have to execute as a close one of the bride. Whether it is your first time or you are a pro, this blog will turn your empty checklist into “all done.” Let’s check out the etiquette for planning the shower perfectly for the Bride-to-be and gift moments with the most precious ladies in her life. Here’s a complete guide on the dos and don’ts for an Indian bridal shower to provide a memorable and seamless event.
The Dos
- Pick A Date
Pick a date a month before the wedding. You can add female family members like mothers, sisters, relatives and friends to the “VIPs” guest list. If the date doesn’t work for the group, you will have time to pick another one.
- Make A List
Do assemble the names of the a guests. Keep the list short and engaging. You add only the people for the wedding invitees. In general, it includes the families and friends of the couple. A counsulting with the bride-to-be is important if she is having multiple showers. You must ensure that if there is anyone, the bride or the mother of the bride wants to join in.
- Games and Activities
If the bride wants, add some fun activities and games. Check if she wants any specific games or activities in the show for entertainment and engagement. Being a host, you, too, plan for some fun activities to engage the invitees. You can add song or dance performances for the bride and her friends. Add some Bollywood and Bride’s favourites to your playlists.
- Decor The Place
Spend time decorating ideas for the place. Mostly, this event happens during the day. So you can go proper desi style by creating garlands and flowers, drapes, and other decor items. Is there any colours in your brain? Yes, you can add them, too, even if it is a trending concept now. In the daytime, people usually prefer a combination of yellow and orange, different shades of pink, or sometimes pastel shades, too.
- Decide The Menu
Do decide a menu that includes some of the favourites of the bride. The shower’s itinerary depends on when you’ll have the shower and the theme. Keep options for snacks or starters, and welcome a drink or tea before they have the meal. For example, if you are planning in the mid-morning, add samosas, pastries, and some namkeens for snacks. Before you plan for the menu, ask the bride if any of the guests have allergies to any specific foods.
- Arrange Backups
Do arrange help from profesionals by hiring people from an event management agency or local community. You can hire a catering service with professional servers, contact decorators and electric services. Besides, if there is a short performance, you can arrange for a choreographer or do it all by yourself. In that case, you have to plan in advance and ask people if they can join you.
The Don’ts
1. Do not complicate the plan.
I understand it is tempting to add all the activities, but it will be tiresome for you and the guests, too. So, without considering more complex activities, you can include something everyone enjoys. You need to focus on the schedule to ensure everyone is engaged and enjoying themselves.
2. Don’t Ignore Cultural Beliefs:
In India, we prefer religion and culture first. If elders want any rituals like puja or blessing, you must ask someone who knows the traditions. There will be guests from different beliefs and backgrounds, so ensure you are not hurting anyone’s feelings. Avoid any action that might be felt improper or offensive.
3. Don’t Ignore the Budget:
Discuss the budget with someone who can guide you in carrying out the plan successfully. You must make a frame of your expenses and prioritize essentials like food and venue. Keep aside some extra funds for emergency purposes.
4. Don’t Overlook Safety Protocols:
Do not forget to keep safety protocols throughout the event especially when elders and children are attending. You must arrange a first-aid box, essential medicines, and ambulance number in an emergency.
An Indian bridal shower celebrates feminity, tradition, and togetherness. By observing these Dos and Don’ts, you can get an overall idea what you ant to execute for your dear one.
